How Difficult To Say I’M Sorry ?

[Bobbisox1]

As long as I’m at fault I’ll say sorry and accept I was wrong,
How about you?

[Barsel]

Why is it that some people find it difficult sometimes impossible to say sorry? I know several people like this and I've never understood why they find it so hard. I must admit, I'm one of those people who seem to say sorry quite a lot and I realised this when someone bumped into me and I was the one who said sorry! True.

[Bobbisox1]

Oh I do that and then said still thinking ‘Hang on, you bumped into me’
The ones with the mobile phones are the best !

[TheDevil]

I have no problem with saying sorry. If it's because I walked to close to someone, if it's because I took the last wrapping paper in Tesco, if it's because I have upset someone... You don't have the right to tell people how you have made them feel, so I'm more than OK with saying sorry if I find out I've upset someone. What a horrible person you must be to think you're always right and entitled to not have to apologise even if it's not directly your fault, yet you would apologise on behalf of someone else.

[Bobbisox1]

I think you’ll find the last bit of your post has applied ( not by me)
If I apologise to anyone, it’s because I’m wrong

[teacake44]

Normally, I find that people who don't say sorry are of an aggressive nature, sadly there are many. Then you have the ones that say sorry a lot, even if its not their fault, this I believe is a way of avoiding conflict with, who may be aggressive. The you have such as AB were one as given an opinion on a subject, been proven wrong, but can't accept their wrong, and thus keep plodding on with their wrong opinion. My case rests, if you think I'm wrong, sorry. :0)

[Barsel]

teacake, you are probably right in a way, but I wonder if the reason some people don't apologise is because if they did, they would be admitting they were wrong, and some people won't ever admit to that.

[Bobbisox1]

It’s similar to respect, respect me and you’ll get it back and visa versa
Sqad ( he won’t mind the name drop) use to always say
“ Bobbie , never say sorry” on AB haha
I think that was the lovely man’s career ethic,
Well he couldn’t ...as a doctor, could he?

[Bobbisox1]

Barsel,
To me there’s nothing at all wrong by saying Hey, I’m in the wrong here but as you say, some would see that as a weakness in themselves

[Barsel]

Exactly Bobbs.x

[jennyjoan]

good morning Bobbs - SORRY you are gettin the rounds o' the kitchen this mornin - SORRY - lol

[Bobbisox1]

No, on the contrary JJ, ,this is all well being on this thread....now
Saturday was a pain but I’m still here alive and well and looking forward to Christmas , perhaps if some realised I’m not a one to be trolled after, then we will all get along just fine :0)

[hereIam]

TonyV, but you get involved when you don't have to, when it's none of your business, so you DO spat ...

[TheDevil]

And so o you hereiam so what gives you the right to highlight that fact? Just shhhh. Seems pointless for you to do something whilst moaning about the thing that you're doing.

[hereIam]

Did someone just say something ???

[TheDevil]

Seems some people need to grow the *** up hahaha. Merry xmas all.