Something About My Crush...

[Casadoodle]

I told my crush I liked him by my mom giving him a note because she's the school nurse and I was WAY too afraid to do it myself.. He never said anything about it that day or today, so I don't know if he likes me back. His friend told me earlier today that the only thing my crush didn't like about me was that I was sometimes quiet. That's all. I said okay in response and left. Now the message has been spread across the whole grade as a rumor! Well, I guess it's not a rumor if it's true, but I'm so scared now. I have no idea what to do at this point. The only last thing that happened was that my crushes friend was calling my name after school, but I didn't respond and just left. Now I'm really curious to see what he had to say. Now to the question: After all this, what should I do? I'm a really shy person when it comes to me talking about my feelings to someone. I couldn't even talk in real life to my friend about it, I had to tell her over text. Anyways, I just need to know what to do.. I'm so scared and confused. If you do know what I should do, I would really love a response! I'm super scared right now..

Question: After all this, what should I do? I'm a really shy person when it comes to me talking about my feelings to someone.

[Ringlet]

I don't think it is appropriate that the school nurse should be passing love notes to a pupil. Is this a fantasy? I can't imagine that this would actually happen.

[Peter Pedant]

cold shower
either you or him
or both but not together

[Peter Pedant]

yeh and I am not keen on the skool nurse being a go-between or duenna

[Casadoodle]

No, it's not fake, she just handed him the note and I had written it myself with my name on it and he knows the nurse..

[Mozz71]

Out of interest, how old are you? If you're under thirteen, go back to your toys as you're clearly not mature enough. If you're older, just talk to the kid. What's the worst that can happen?

[woofgang]

bit surprised that the school nurse would agree to have any part in this, especially if the note was sealed and she didn't know what was in it

[Old_Geezer]

To cope with shyness you need to take a deep breath and do things slightly uncomfortable for you. Once you get used to that you can try things slightly more uncomfortable, until they also become ok. But you need to start and continue to get the benefit of change and self confidence, not to mention it becoming norm for you.

Go talk to someone you know who calls you, next time. You don't have to say much, just what you can, and which seems appropriate.

Start with your text friend maybe. That ought to not be too scary as they are a friend.

[MallyJ]

Crikey girlie.....if your mum is daft enough to pass notes from love sick girls to non love sick boys whilst working as a school nurse she would run the risk of getting the sack here as that sort of behaviour really is inappropriate. She may well find it difficult to find another job in the same field if this nonsense comes to light. Don't you like your mum or are schools etc in the US (where I am assuming you come from) so lax in protecting their pupils? Think about it carefully...would it be allowed if a boy sent messages to a girl in this way? I am just stunned.

[scorpiojo]

How old are you?

[david small]

Made up 1st poster AGAIN.....