The flaws here consists of the flaws I have mentioned about myself, but there do exists males who possess either some or all of these faults to:
- If that person was known for having airhead/idiotic tendencies,
- Grew up with any speech/mental disabilities or obstacles,
- Does not have the luxuries to live a normal adult life (license, car, job, money, house) and is not able to physically attract folks because of not having these luxuries and no being considered good-looking
- Was never incredibly popular in School because they did not have the skills in any popular major (for example, sports or music),
- Doesn't listen to the music that happens to be considered "the cool thing" for everyone else and instead listens to the music that would get them bullied, and that individual isn't physically and mentally strong and/or capable of defending themselves for any assault
Should he give up his hope of trying to find a girlfriend or does he take the risk?
Rowanwitch - To answer the question in the first sentence, it’s that the male himself in interested in dating. (Meaning get does want to try to have one). No one is forcing him to have one, he is just genuinely interested in trying to date!
I’m asking if he should try despite his faults or just give up because of his faults?
Rowanwitch - It’s not excuses if one actually do have these faults and have been rejected because of these faults. Plus, what does “do what makes you happy” means in this situation? Should they risk trying or stop trying to get a girlfriend?
Trust me, what you see as a flaw may be a shining positive to someone else. Go online dating maybe? You may be surprised. There are loads of girls who are just as weird as you see yourself to be. Just don't take rejection to heart, it happens to us all.
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