If You Know The Back Story....

[nailit]

Mum put on a syringe driver.
I stayed awake all night with her to hear her sobbing in pain (and at times hallucinating or being delirious...dont know which)
For Gods sakes...
Care in the *** comunity....great isnt it?

[Mamyalynne]

Someone qualified must have put in the syringe driver.

[Barmaid]

An awful situation, Nailit and in such circumstances your anger (together with what I imagine are a myriad of other feelings) are understandable.

If we are at end of life, it is sadly sometimes very unpleasant for those close.

Try to work through the anger and remain calm for your mother. You are probably knackered and existing on adrenaline so that isnt easy. If you can, get hold of her GP since she should not be sobbing in pain (although, in fairness, it may not be pain, it may be delirium from the morphine which has really odd effects on people - I am no doctor, I say this from personal experience).

Keep talking to mum. She may be more comforted that she can show by this and you may in time seek some comfort from the fact that you said whatever you needed to to her.

It's a *** situation. I wish her painlessness and you strength.

[nailit]

//Someone qualified must have put in the syringe driver//
District nurse Mamy. Yesterday, but had a night in pain again.


//An awful situation, Nailit and in such circumstances your anger (together with what I imagine are a myriad of other feelings) are understandable//
Thanks BM.
About sums it up, thank you.


Currently got a nob in the flat below me that thinks I want to listen to his music when I NEED sleep (cant go anymore that 2 days with-out sleep)
God help me....

[eve1974]

Oh nailit I’m so sorry ...for your mum and for you.

I also hope U get a little rest (if the knob head below allows!)

[eve1974]

Nailit.,.. I hope that you got some sleep eventually and that your mum has a more restful day today. X