I’m Not In The Least Bit Jealous But

[eve1974]

Ok so I feel safe to post here cos no one on AB knows who I am…

Husb has been sending seriously (!!!) explicit (and cringeworthy) texts to someone he has known for years.

I am not jealous (I know many would be but I just don’t have the “jealous” part in my nature!!! )

The issues I have are:

A they are seriously cringeworthy
B she is not reciprocating (via text at least) so that makes them even more cringeworthy
C if her husband finds out he will not be happy I assure you!!!!
D lady involved is not the full ticket mentally ;by that I don’t mean she’s sub normal intelligence (she used to be very switched on) but she’s beginning to lose her marbles (Im not the only one who says this - many others have noticed too)


I’m almost more insulted that he doesn’t bother to hide it tbh.

Husb excuses it by saying that I should see how many Inuendos etc she throws his way in person (he sees her once a week work related) ….but I think he’s making an idiot of himself and playing a dangerous game.

[eve1974]

Hi not trying to justify his actions at all. Just because I’m not the sort to throw a tantrum nor be jealous does NOT mean I’m in agreement at all.

He’s being a ***!

But I do think he fails to see he’s overstepped the boundaries ….

As for what he’s said about it .,., well each time I bring it up he gets p*seed off n tells me “it’s just banter”. He simply won’t discuss it. So I’ve given up trying.

[pixie374]

I wouldn't be jealous either... with his annoyance, has he actually stopped now?

[eve1974]

He has stopped (allegedly) but time will tell. I’m not the sort to monitor his phone but I think I may just start.

[pixie374]

No, I wouldn't. If he says he has stopped, I would leave it. If it gets to the point of not even trusting each other, that's a whole different issue.

[Hopkirk]

Ask her if it's still happening.

[AuntPG]

Eve I don't avocate you throwing a wobbly or raving at the female involved ( if indeed she is actually involved and not a victim)

A simple email on the lines of

'Hi I hope you don't mind me contacting you but I believe my husband is sending you explicit emails. He's been quite open about it to me, and I understand you are not reciprocating. I've told him this is not acceptable and hope this is not worrying to you. If you need support don't hesitate to get in touch'

[curlygirlies]

partner sends porno texts to another female, wife is not bothered, husband not bothered she knows - hello?