I’m not sure where to begin with your last post….but.
Here you go regarding some stats on DV:
Domestic abuse:
Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime so not too much of a difference.
In 2010 the Forced Marriage Unit responded to 1735 reports of possible Forced Marriages. What religion do you think is connected with that?
https://lwa.org.uk/understanding-abuse/statistics/
Women change their names and name (in association with their husbands / partners) their children after their partners for love, pixie, not because they are chattels.
I don’t think anyone is saying one type of murder is more acceptable than another.
I can only conclude that your rather entrenched views are as a result of some bad experience but you need to see things from a wider, less prejudiced viewpoint.