Khandro - Why are you persisting in painting Lady Hussey as -blameless', when people who were there clearly confirm that she was not.
And it flies in the face of Lady Hussey's own assessment of her behaviour, where she has publicly acknowledged the blame for what went on, and made a public and personal apology for it.
To still call her-blameless, is to indulge in some wilful and bizarre denial of verifiable facts.
You need to let it go.
Lady Hussey has, if you admire her so much, maybe you should follow her example.