Why no sex?

[sandrajo]

My friends husband has decided he doesn't want to sleep with her anymore he just doesn't feel like it? She thinks he's playing away, I've never known this to happen to a man what do you think?

[raysparx1]

Hi sandrajo,

Maybe he has problems getting an erection, if he does he needs to go to see the doctor, cos it can be a sign of something deeper than just that.

[Pea Pod]

How long have they been married. I wish I had the nerve to tell my husband thats how I feel.

[sandrajo]

15 years they have been married but they are only in their 40's.

Thanks ray I'll pass that on

[PinkFizz]

He actually said to her that he doesnt want to make love to her anymore??Was this out of the blue ?

[Gill 05]

Maybe she just doesn't do it for him anymore *shrug*

[sandrajo]

The other night just out the blue pinkfizz , they were fine up till then, she asked him again this morning and he said he just doesn't feel like it. Yeah gill that's what I said but I think I hurt her feelings.

[auzzie]

If he was playing away, she would know. It would be other contributory factors like, going out odd times or staying out later, finishing phone calls quick when she is around, making a special effort to dress up when he goes to work, all those sort of things. If she cant sense any of this, chances are he is not playing away. He may have prostate trouble, blood pressure etc that he is not aware of. He could also just have a male menopause. He does need to see his GP just to rule out anything medical though.

[Eric Git]

Maybe it's a fad that he's going through. Tell her to let him be, I'm sure after a while, when he feels the need so to speak, that he'll suddenly take an interest again. If I were her, I'd start do things diferently, like going more to the gym, or treating myself to the hairdressers or a facial every now and then to make me feel good, sort of making a diference without it being obvious. Then he'll see what he's missing, so when he gets in the mood again, she should turn him down! That'll teach him.

[PinkFizz]

Did they have a normal sexual relationship up until he said that?

[Agent_Smith]

i work with 4 lads and 3 of them (including myself) talk about "not being bothered about it" but the only one who is gagging for it all the time is a 31yr old single bloke who will knock one off a frog if it stopped hopping!!

so in answer to the question............i think its perfectly normal! he will change his mind when he is ready!! or if she whispers she is a dirty **** in his ear it may be sooner rather than later??

[Agent_Smith]

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