oh dear think have upset my ex gf

[steve208]

Well have just text her to say wont be coming up to see her this coming weekend. We have been seeing each other casually for about 4 or five months now but only been up to see her for two long weekends in that time.

Text her about half an hour ago to say i was not coming up and not heard back from her yet! I mean i didnt want to upset or annoy her but she knew id either wanna break away or get closer and ive decided i wanna make myself stop seeing her in a casual way.

[dot.hawkes]

steve she may not have any credit you know, anyway, i hope you haven't totally broken off your friendship with her cos you may want to see her again as a friend. Well done anyway for making a decision, seriously, it is a step forward.

[steve208]

hum ok dot. Id like to keep her as a friend but also was wanting to have one last erm lustful indulgence. She knows we cant get back together as with the distance and conflicting working times its impossible to see a lot of each other.

[steve208]

maybe i will go up next weekend but that would be the last time.

[snapdarlich]

She's probably getting a bit of action herself.

Casual relationships never work. Move onwards and upwards!

[snapdarlich]

or is that inwards and outwards? ;)

[steve208]

ok maybe she is i dont know. Cest le vie if she is but tis just a bit of a muddle atm! oh well.

[dot.hawkes]

hiya snappy where have you been? Steve you are both young enough to move on now, try to find a new GF closer to home.

[CrazyDaisy80]

No offence meant by my Answer but you are obviously not that into this Girl from what you have said on your Questions and subsequent Posts. Do both of you a Favour and move on. Stay Single for a while, put her out of her misery and just get on with your Life and let her do the same. Whilst it might be 'Casual' for you she might be feeling more and to just let it fade out is hardly fair on her.

Sounds like you wanna be your own Man anyway so take the Bull by the Horns and tell her it's Friends only.

[snapdarlich]

Hiya Dotty - I'm still going about - you?

I meant no offence in my answer either. Move on - get out! NOW! ;)

it's 23:58 - the night is but young!

If you don't make it out! Draw a line under your relationship and make a fresh start on Friday night!!!

I just hope *judging by your posts* you're not missing her more than you let on. And I think you might.

Good luck any-hows!

[chimney]

She is your EX, do not worry about it, it's your life live it how you want to mate.

[steve208]

Snappy i def dont miss her a huge amount. I never felt like there was a deep emotional connection dont think she completely understood me.

Oh well i am on the singles thing at the moment, a bit scary though as i dont have many friends i feel its very hard to get a gf, i dont think i deserve one until i can suceed with friends.