What Do I Do About This Date?

[abbeylee90]

Basically I'm meant to be going on a date Thursday but o realised I've double booked, I have an appointment at 4.20 and we are meant to be meeting between 6-6.30. I asked about changing it to Friday but I can't do then.

[abbeylee90]

No he insisted on staying at mine and taking to work the next I said no and we've never even met.

[naomi24]

So what's this about staying at his?

[abbeylee90]

No he said he could stay at mine.

[naomi24]

So he's not staying at yours and you're not staying at his?   You're each going home to your own houses at the end of the evening?

[abbeylee90]

Yes he just asked about staying at mine. Do I still go on the date?

[naomi24]

Go if you want to - but insist on going to your own home at the end of the evening.  It's your choice - not his.  

[abbeylee90]

Well he seems lovely and got abit in common but not much

[naomi24]

Have a nice night - and take care of yourself.  

[abbeylee90]

People must think I'm stupid for not keep dating the eyebrow guy he was genuine and treated me like a princess.

[newmodarmy]

Eyebrow guy was the one with pierced eyebrows and a beard you didn't like who had chocolate stains on his trousers. Looking back at your epic April thread you also said "Had abit of shaky voice and loomed very gangsta " and not sure you liked him and not sure he's right for you. You also weren't sure about whether to meet up- you said you "CBA".

Maybe you have rose tinted specs on now.

[newmodarmy]

You also chose to date someone else when eyebrowbeardychocolatestain guy was on holiday and said it went well and said about eyebrow guy "Other one on holiday and don't think I like him"

[Karamia]

Keep an eye on any drinks being ordered by him when he on his own at a bar, or if you leave your drink with him while you go to the loo. People have been known to have had their drinks spiked by strangers who then take them home. 

He sounds like he out for sex rather than a relationship. Showing his true colours so please beware. 

[abbeylee90]

I won't drink much as I got work next day and will keep an eye on him at the bar.

[DDIL]

But your own drinks if it's a first date

[abbeylee90]

I would have done rounds.

[abbeylee90]

Might  cancel tomorrow got my hands full with the dogs and my appointment 

[Neveracrossword]

Ok.

[abbeylee90]

What do I say?

[pastafreak]

Same as you just told us...appointment and dogs. Easy.

[Neveracrossword]

What do you want to say? Go with that!