when do you know for sure

[dizydosydoll]

When do you know for sure when a relationship is over?

[ummmm]

Do you still love him?

[loobie]

I knew my relationship was over when I thought he was cheating on me and I actually didn't care if he was. When i couldn't see a future for us and I knew I was miserable when I was around him. Was the biggest step I've ever had to take but was the best decision I've made as I've been so much happier since xxx

[whiskeysheri]

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion218645.html

It's taken me until now to realise though...

[dizydosydoll]

so is your relationship over then whiskeysheri?
I do still love him but im not inlove with him.
we have a child together and so that keeps putting me off that we wont be a proper family and then in the future if i have anymore kids there dad will be around and my first childs wont be as much and they will have different dads......breath. But i suppose thats just life.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, You know its over when you have to question your relationship...

[suzyangel]

Go with the gut feeling. It's 99.9% correct.

[sleepyj]

when u hate them .its over

[katangel26]

When they do the things that you used to like, but you now hate. When you no longer can't wait to see them and when you're questioning if it's over!

[filthiestfis]

my gut feeling is telling me I need the loo :I

[sunsocks]

In my case, it was a bit of a 'giveaway' when I found original loveletter faxes that he had sent to her .......
Another clue was his frequent absence
Finally, finding videos of him sh*gging another woman was the icing on the cake