very tearful today !

[serendipity1]

have just finally after months put an end to a realtionship with someone who was basically using me , wed had a 5 month relationship which he ended , i was totally in love with him and so have been letting him come round on the odd occasion , im totally besotted and so when hes with me i am in heaven , when he leaves i am in tatters not knowing if im going to see him again, well ive done it today i wont be seeing him again and i am in pieces even though i know ive done the right thing ...need some cheering words or even funny ones!! thanks guys X

[whiskeysheri]

Aww, hi sweetie! Big hugs from me.

I won't give you any advice 'cause I can't even sort myself out at the moment! :o)

I've emailed you though, hun xxx

[serendipity1]

hi hun thanks xx

[serendipity1]

watch this space eh folks will keep you posted as to whether I can stay strong , I actually think i can , feeling quite strong and thats i think from all your support today, tomorrows another day I know but will come back 1 week from today and let you know !!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[arburgirl]

hi serendipity,
we've all done it in the past, been sat on by someone to more or less a degree. So, no 1. don't beat yourself up over that one. you may feel bad right now, but tomorrow after a goods night sleep, start planning the rest of your life for yourself and your son. make some goal for yourself maybe ? I was with a bloke who used me, I was strong enough to leave him and it took all my inner strength, then stupidly (and that's too meagre a word) I went back, biggest regret of my life. since then one of my sayings is never go back, which I apply to everything now not just relationships. good luck and lots of hugs, you have lots of mates here gunning for you, keep in touch.

[serendipity1]

thanks to you too arburgirl , it has definitely been like an addiction and we all know the only real way to beat one !!
xxx

[sam100]

hi serendipity...im going through the same thing at the mo...keep getting this overwhelming feeling to pick up my phone and send a text...its just soo hard so i know where your coming from!

Chin up girl!!!!

Let us know any updates! Always a friend on this site.x

[serendipity1]

thanks sam, its a b*****d isnt it? will keep you posted xxxx

[Coffeeman7]

Stay strong Serendipity! You will make it through the tough times.

[raysparx1]

Hello serendipity,

How are you feeling today ? hope you had a good sleep,try to stay strong,it will get easier,take care xx

[serendipity1]

morning Ray, i'm actually not too bad today, slept well thanks! Today is a new day I am definitely not going to text him am going to look forward I will keep you posted. Thanks for your kindness . xxx

[serendipity1]

thanks coffeeman! xx

[raysparx1]

Keeping strong I hope,keep it going,don't weeken,specially on the weekend at the lowest point, xx

[serendipity1]

hi ray hun , am still strong and more positive everyday , having a quiet weekend , need some sleep and alcohol free time , will watch dvds and slob this weekend , sunday will go to sons footy and watch local fireworks ! overall better thankyou for asking , how bout you ? xx

[raysparx1]

HI, you are doing great, sons footie,god that brings back fond memories,cherish every moment, it passes so quickly,and can never be replaced, both my lads played,and I ran boys teams for years,great times, hope you have a great weekend,you must be a great mum,not many used to come to our games,same few every week,probably still like that, is it ? enjoy your weekend,and treat yourself to a good dvd,and some choccies,take care, stick with it, speak again, Ray xx

[raysparx1]

Hiya, hope you are still ok, this is the hardest part,the first week or so, stick with it, good luck, Ray xx

[serendipity1]

hi ray done good i have , still pining but went out sat night met up with whiskeysheri for first time , lovely girl !! yeah footy is the same only few parents turn up same ones , my son is striker doing really well too , fluffed about 5 goals yesterday trying to impress his girlfriend whod turned up , bless! hes only 12 , i had a good weekend thanks! how about yours? xx

[raysparx1]

Hello,

Glad you are still sticking with it,you can only get stronger,you deserve better than you have had in the past,so good luck, I have a pic of whiskey,she is georgeous,but a lot of you ladies are on here, you take care of yourself, glad your lad is doing well at the footie, good to keep them active and they can run any aggresion off on the pitch,to many tubby kids about,a lot of parents just can't be bothered,sad isn't it. speak again, Ray xx

[raysparx1]

Hello serendipity,

How are you doing ? hope you are still staying strong and haven't given in yet,let us know how you are,take care, Ray xx

[serendipity1]

aww hi ray, you still rooting for me ?, its so nice to have support , having a hard time today, i suppose its cause I know its over and its his birthday tomorrow , I should feel good , I have a date tonight with a sweet guy Ive known for years , not really ready for that yet but hes in a similar position so maybe we will help each other! Im on the whol ok really just today for some reason I feel particularly bad! Never mind I will have other things to think about later when Im getting ready and wondering what to wear! Thanks Ray , I really appreciate your kindness, changing the subject for a sec I have just made a right idiot of myself , I answered the office door to a delivery , a massive tnt lorry a guy walks towards me must have been my height 5" with a package about the size of a mobile phone to which I commented a great big lorry like that for that, to which he replied , well you know what they say the best things come in small packages and you can t get better than me , I didnt know what to say , sometimes nothing is best my mum says!! has made me smile though!! and you have too Ray cheers , you can email me if you like whiskey has my add. take care and thanks again !! xx