Re: 'is he interested or just being polite' my previous post 26/10

[katangel26]

Well he hasn't asked me out. We have been chatting though and I've found out that his name is Mark, he's 37, he's got a 19 year old son and a 6 year old daughter, he's a weekend and bank holiday dad (so he's not with the mum), he lives a couple of streets away from me, he's got two cars, he's the manager of the garage and has been working there for five months, he didn't sleep well last night (woke up at 3 and was awake for 2 hours, even though he's got nothing on his mind!). He hasn't asked anything about me, or is it that I haven't told him anything about me?! I'm confused, does he like me or does he need someone to talk to?! I've thought about trying to ask if he has a girlfriend in the conversation by maybe saying 'does your girlfriend get on with your kids' or something similar to which I'd hope he'd reply 'I haven't got a girlfriend' but I don't wanna seem too pushy or forward incase he isn't interested in me in that way. I'm confused, any advice anyone? Thank x

[PinkFizz]

God even Im getting frustrated with you now!! lol

[katangel26]

lol and so you should I'm rubbish. I wish I would have taken my car to his garage now, it's gonna cost �335 to get it through! Scandalous!!!! I'm gonna try and force myself to question if he's single or not, dunno how I' m gonna do it though, only got the next 30 minutes to think!

[myishealuvs?]

You should try to help him with his problems first because he probably do need someone to talk to. and when the time is right everything will just fall into the conversation and just keep your cool don't sound list your desprite take it slow.

Good Luck

[alinic]

Get right in there! get back to the garage and ask him out! if you dont i will! Only joking! life is so too short!
Go girl go!

[teag1rl]

roll on Monday!! Good luck Katangel

[katangel26]

My thoughts exactly teag1rl, thanks hun

[katangel26]

omg I felt silly! Well he's single and has been for four months (which isn't long considering he was with her for at least near on seven years). I must have sounded sooooo corny, he said he needs something to snuggle up to cos he's got a cold and I said 'have you got a girlfriend to snuggle up to then' lol, cheesy or what! At least I know he's single! Ain't been long since the split though so me thinks it's a no no, oh well, I tried!

[teag1rl]

Well, you've discovered he's single but you sound like you're giving up? Ask the guy out! It ,might have only been 4 months but that's like, a third of a year! You've got nothing to lose and if you are mightily embarrassed if he says no (which he isnt going to) look on the bright side-you'll have to devise a new route to school-more fresh air and exercise for you and the kids!!

[katangel26]

Ha ha. Maybe I should just somehow drop it into conversation I like him and just leave the ball in his court. I know I should ask him out but I'm not normally that forward!