Lonnie, Take heart. I've posted many a question or even a reply only to be knocked back or ridiculed. Take no notice ,your post showed genuine concern for young women who get plastered. Like I said, I was the same years ago and we even used to thumb lifts! So there for the grace of God go we. I recall one time when I was ratted, I saw one of those big linen basket's in a club,thought it was my bed,climbed in and fell asleep! Someone found me and got me out. Its when we have our own kids,especially girls that we worry. Daisy.