boyfriend and holiday

[carlyo2le]

would you let your boyfriend go to aya napa (bad spelling) we live together and have done so for 2 years now hes wanting to go with all his mates theres about 15 of them some single some not and some who arnt that both about there girlfriends, what do you think? i trust him and i know 99% hel never cheat on me but the thought of all the girls in bikinis around! its gonna drive me crazy if he goes i think!

[IslandFairy]

Thanks for the stars Carly!!! My first posting too!! Apologies for it being a bit long, but it's not something I can say in 10 words or less!! lol

I really wish you all the best. Relationships are hard work and we are constantly being challenged. But please, please remember that you should never let fear be the driving force behind any decision you make. If you're afraid, it's just because you don't have all the information. Get the information and make sure that it's all laid out clearly on the table for you both to see. Then there's no confusion or '... but I didn't realise...' situations.

Take care of yourself, and let the love that's in your heart show in your eyes and your words....

[Theland]

Ummmmm - Phew! What a busy thread! And all over nothing! Yes please, Ummmm, please send me the info, now more than ever, as it looke like I might be moving house, and am going to be desperate for an additional income.

[sleepyj]

he will think more off you if he knows your happy he is going . 1 week is nothing .good luck any way

[carlyo2le]

thankyou everyone but still dont want him to go, il let you know what happens xx

[ummmm]

I really do not understand the issue....you trust him? Let him go....

[Athley]

All our friend who have had separate holidays over the years have either split up eventually or got divorced. Not a good statistic. I never go away without Mr Athley we both work hard for our holidays we take during the year and really enjoy each others company. I can't imagine going without him or vice versa.

:o)

[Athley]

*friends we have more than 1 !!

[sophie_1003]

I know exactly how you feel carly, I trust my boyfriend nearly 100% but whenever he goes away with his mates I get so over paranoid!! But he always says to me that he can get sex whenever he wants off me so why would he want to sleep with some dirty girl he's just met (his words- to anyone who's had a holiday romance!) also he says when he goes on hol with his mates its all about getting absolutely wasted n just hanging out together! Let him go and don't give him too hard a time about it, let him know your going to miss him rather than your going to get worried about him cheating! Lead your own life for the week he's away and do something special the day he gets back (even if its just wearing some sexy underwear!) This way he'll know that you not only care about him loads but also are able to be independent. If you do get really paranoid, just ask him outright when he gets back if he was faithful to you, the answer will probably be yes and if he's lovely he'll be really nice and reassure you!

[chitchat]

How well do you know the girlfriends of the other guys that are going? Why cant you all go and do your own thing as a girlie group whilst the boys are all away?

[carlyo2le]

wel prob have a night out together but im still gunna miss him like crazy!

[sophie_1003]

yay i got stars!! when is he going? let us know how it all goes!

[carlyo2le]

hes booking it tmoz and going 22 july, im dreading it soooooooooooooo much at least iv got 5 month to get used to the idea!

[carlyo2le]

well hes booked it but only put �100 down at the mo i still hate the idea and i know ill be in the biggest mood weeks b4 he goes and weeks after he comes back im not happy at all im peed off,,

[ummmm]

You need to have a little chat with yourself then.....If someone put me through weeks of moods just because I was going away I would walk from them...