honesty while dating

[legend758duo]

can men or women ,really be trusted when dating?
are men more honest than women?(yes)
or are women more honest than men (unlikely)
are people ever totally honest with each other?
or do they always fib a little bit?

[starry eyes]

I was always TOTALY honest with my (ex) boyf. I never lied once in 4 years. If you love someone enough, you will always be honest with them. My ex lied to me toward the end of our relationship, so in my opinion, wonem are more honest!!!!!!!! But as is said, if you are really in love. you will both be honest all the time.

[laurence2]

Why just dating?

I think men & women can be equally dishonest with each other, no one is 100% honest so to speak, we've all said little white lies, relationships are built on trust tho, someone who lies will always be caught out in the end.

[Octavius]

There is nothing wrong with some slight embellishments during the dating period, but one must always be aware that the truth will out in the end. Sometimes this is opportunistic and provides a means to end it. However, there is no place in a friendship or relationship for telling outright lies, as this is demeaning to them and to yourself.

[Athley]

I don't think its all about the honesty - all relationships needs to keep an element of mystery about them. If we know every single thing about a partner wouldn't it be dull?

:o)

[legend758duo]

starry.
been in various longterm relqationships.
6 years,10 years.
at the latter stages the truth became a stanger to my partners lol.
but i guess you live and learn lol

[unruliejulie]

I'll just say we're all individuals so as far as im concerned everyone shold be taken for who and what they are, not what sex they are. Some very honest some not so!

[Skreecheeboy]

It would be a heinous generalisation to make to answer the original question objectively. Some women are dishonest, as are some men. You can't say that one is worse than the other as it's all down to personal experience and nobody is ever going to know the answer without a certain degree of omniscience.

[Dicko_82]

Recently a legal firm released statistics showing that of all divorce cases they handled, adultery on behalf of the WOMEN was the reason given in over 90% of the cases they dealt with.

And why is that women who get caught 'playing away' always try & shift the blame back to their male partners with the likes of "well if he had payed me more attention blah, blah, blah, etc"

[chicklin]

I dont think you can generalise with this answer. Honesty is not dependent on gender. Both have the ability to deceive, should they choose.
It seems that in the early days of a relationship, people may be more inclined bend the truth for whatever reason, but as a relationship deepens the urge to have a bond based on honesty surfaces. This appears to last as long as each person believes themselves to be in love with their partner. However, if the relationship starts to break down, the return to telling lies as and when it is deemed necessary resurfaces.

[legend758duo]

cut to the chase.
women.
you cant trust them as far as you can throw em.
and some of em ar big beeeeetches .
lol