That is such a sensible idea! well done. Do you have a GUM clinic in your area, or a family planning centre? if you have, visit one of them and tell them of your desire to have children and that you would like to be tested to ensure that unprotected sex would be safe. it would be an idea to get your partner ckecked out too to make sure your safe also. This service should be free, i know it is in the area i live. Dont worry about the stigma of any of these tests, since the health professionals carrying out the tests will admire your willingness to ensure that no STD's are spread. You should be proud of yourself, and i wish you all the best of luck! xx