Is she a lesbian?

[good-arras]

I posted a question about this a few weeks ago, asking for peoples opinion on whether my ex fiancee was gay or not but have now found for sure out that she is now having a lesbian relationship ( she told me!). She says she doesn't fancy any other women apart from the one she's now with and is still attracted to men. Is she a lesbian or is it possible to have a relationship like that at that age (she's mid twenties) and 'revert' back to being straight? Sad as it is I still like to think that we might get back together someday!

[alijangra]

She obviously is not 'straight' and never will be. I dont see a purpose in trying to label her. Why you would want her back is beyond me as trust is the most important thing, imo, in a relationship. All is not lost if she says she she is still interested in men, but lets hope you have moved on by the time she gets bored with her lesbian lover.

[warpig3]

No she is not necessarily a lesbian, I think it is possible for a woman to connect with another woman and for that relationship to develop but this does not mean that she is eyeing up all women. Perhaps there is just some special bond she has found in this person.

If she has been honest enough to admit that she is in a lesbian relationship then I would assume she is being honest in everything else she says, however you were engaged to her so you know her best.

As for getting back together, maybe this is a blip and she is exploring her sexuality, just because she is in her mid twenties does not mean she is too late to experiment or question her sexuality.

Take care
warpig