I recently meat a guy, which is about 7 years older than me. He has been married and has a daughter. I am aware of that. I also have been married and have a daughter. is there a problem with me dating him? And the thing is that it's been a small certaing amount of time and I really like this guy and just scared to get hurt. Am in the process of my divorce and basicly don't know exacly what to do. I wanna be with this guy but yet I really dont know mych about him. He is just so damb nice to me, and I feel that he cares for me. I really hope it's like that. He has shown me it is but am scared...
You cant look at everything in such a gloomy way, be positive. My mate has just got with someone and she has a child and so0 does he, just make sure you don�t get into it too quick, and that the children are slowly bought into it. Everything will be fine. Go for it.
It's not that I imagine everyone is out here to hurt me it's just that I have been a lot and am just scared..
But yes, I am trying to make this work and I want to be with him. The children, yes it is a slow thing cause my daughter is still small and sees her dad so I don't want her to get any bad idea. As far as for his kid shes 7 and she knows whats going on at home and I don't want her to hate me so I wanna stay away until everything is ok and she agrees.
I also understand the fact the mother will always be there and he needs to be there so that ain't a problem for now.