Trying to get pregnant

[Taylor24]

Can any one help me i am trying to get pregnant and dont know if ther is any thing i could buy to increase my fertility as i am 41 this year plus what do you think about trying at my age.

[lady_p_gold]

well it is certainly not uncommon for women to have a baby at 41 although the chances of abnormalities are increased, but you could be screened for that .. I would say it all depends on whether you have had any children before and the luck of nature .... take your temperature each day and it will dip slightly and then rise when you are ovulating, or buy an ovulation kit, then make sure you have sex plenty of times around then, and not sure if its an old wives tale but stay lying down afterwards for a while .. if it doesn't work after a while you might be able to get IVF not sure about post codes and age .. but good luck !!!

[Le-Chat]

Taylor. I totally agree with lady p gold. Make sure you are taking folic acid as well. I had my second son at age 39 and found it so much more tiring than the first time at 32. However, on saying that, I only had the one child to contend with first time round. Good luck and have a good time trying!! I always found that doing a shoulder stand after the event worked, it seemd logical to keep the sperm all together and fighting for the egg, rather than standing up, thereby letting half of them fall out with gravity!!

[sotelme]

Well I dont know what to suggest to increase your firtility but would like to say I am 43 and if I could I would definately also try for another baby. And I think if you really want a baby no matter the age (off course if it is in the limit and not outrageously old) and you are healthy you go for it girl.......good luck

[curiosity]

Female orgasm increases the chance of conception, both in terms of the fluid produced and also the contractions accompanying it, apparently upto 40 minutes after intercourse, so it doesn't necessarily have to be a mutual orgasm. Good Luck.

[catcuddler]

hi this might sound simple but if your worried about not getting pregnant the stress could be affecting you.try forgetting about trying to get pregnant and enjoy being intimate with your partner which will reduce your stress levels.i know of at least 2 people this worked for after months of trying when they relaxed they were pregnant witihin a few months