Excuse me, i am not "trawling for guys" i am trying to meet people who i can share similar interests and have a laugh with! No one said anything about sex or one night stands you said that!
AB is a Q&A site, why not try a dating or friendship site? Youve got a better chance of finding people with similar interests too if you look on a site where people have profiles and are also single (or at least trying to be)
Jenna I dont think you will be taken seriously here, as redcrx has suggested there are many dating sites around where it is much easier to find someone of your own age, in the same area with similar interests. I think they even have pictures so you can check out the goods before trying lol