Man Trouble

[Tweetybird28]

I have just very recently started seeing someone who had been chasing me for the last three months until I agreed to go out with him. However, last week he said he has met someone who is eight years younger than him, and would like to get to know her and then make a decision on who he wants to be with. What is with that? I mean, I went around his this week and he says he still hasn't decided. I have grown to like him and I think he has some cheek saying he would like to know this person. What shall I do?

[nannon]

no way - for real??? twell him to sling his hook before you get to incolved - thats a horrible way to treat someone. I guess some people just like the chase...

[~max~]

What an ar$e!!!! And I suppose he expects you to wait around until he's made his "decision"? Get rid ASAP, and don't do it lightly! Tell him you don't expect to be treated that way, and that you will save your time for someone who deserves you.
I can't believe the cheek!

[missrandom]

tell him to shove it!

[warpig3]

Agree with all of the above, sounds like a tw@t to me, get rid NOW .

[China Doll]

If you're not serious about each other I don't really see the harm to be totally honnest. It just sounds like normal dating to me. He hasn't tried to hide anything from you.

But obviously if you are feeling a bit more serious about the relationship than him then perhaps it's best to let it go.

[Trinny]

Men huh, can us women ever understand them?

Let him make his choice.......and while he is doing that, you tell him, that you too have met someone else, who adores you, and wants to put you first.

Dump the boyfriend....he is a looser

[~Wingnut~]

Jeebus! Agree with above! He enjoyed the chase, got you so to speak and then moved on to another chase. Tell the loser to grow up and that you have made the decision for him!! Do you really want to be with someone who will treat you this way?

Where exactly did he meet this younger woman? was he activley looking for someone else and if so why when he was already with you? Did he not tell her he had a girlfriend? Does she know about this decision? Hopefully if you decide to get rid she will react the same way and tell him where to go also. Sounds like he just wants his ego rubbed (amongst other things!)

Go find yourself a hunk who will treat you with the respect you deserve :o)

[Tweetybird28]

Thanks for all the advice guys. I dont think I will let it go any further as it's nothing serious, and I do want him to know that he cant expect me to hang around waiting for him to make his decision. So much for me thinking he was a really sweet guy...lol. I have spent the last three days with my ex, and we were talking about giving it another go. So, watch this space....

[warpig3]

Good, you look after no. 1.

[nuoyg]

What a cheeky gyte. If a bloke said that to me I'd give him the old heave ho.

Good luck with the ex!