Hi Folks, Boy do I miss this site and our little chats sooo much, I have moved in now with my new b/f, all is going fine, I love him to bits, he is lovely, BUT has some weird ideas, he asked about my jewellery the other day, my rings - I love rings, my fave jewellery and yes they were all made for me by my ex-husband, is it wrong to wear them ? I also wear the old engagement ring, its too valuable not to wear also its not easy to remove! But b/f had a complete paddy about it ! Another thing while we were moving my stuff out he came across an old photo of me and a guy, he had another paddy, he refuses to discuss my 'past' and seems to think I should never have been with another guy ! He hates me going on AB too - but I manage to sneak on now and again, why is he like this ????? I truthfully cant see this lasting very long as I am walking on eggshells as it is. I love him and want to get to the bottom of his issues. Do your partners mind you using the internet and AB?
Guess I better take the old engagement ring off - understandable - but I am just used to wearing the rings day in day out, like part of the furniture to me, I dont give them a second thought, they are just there. I am though going to try and persuade him to come with me to a counsellor to talk through a few things.