ratter - i didn't say you did use trickery - i said some guys do, and given that this is not your question, its safe to assume i was referring to that.
your assumption that any girl who decides she feels comfortable enough to have sex has automatically had ''half the population'' ( your words) is an assumption that is rarely made or used in reference to men - that is double standards.
I do not sleep with every man I meet, so keep the self righteous arrogant mini lecture to yourself.
my point was if a girl does it once, how does that equate as doing it with 'everyone'?
a tad over the top judgement, don't you think.
its about time people stopped viewing sex as some dirty disgusting thing and trying to instil guilt about on people, and assuming someone is worthless because they happen to like it.
women have the same desires and urges as men, yet we are expected to keep them hidden and play all these stupid ''courting'' games and rituals, in order to convince some bloke of some old fashioned value that we are expected to have.
you do realise most that stuff is generally not real don't you?
most girls have the desire and urge, and really want to - but hold back, because society says they should and they have had all these rules drummed into them - in their heads they are thinking it, same as the bloke, so be under no illusions.
it has nothing to do with 'self respect' - i don't see how wanting to have sex is a sign of a lack of self respect...
the problem lies with the attitude of blokes who talk about women the way you did - that is the main reason most women hold back - fear of gossip - not because they feel 'disrespectful' or feel chaste