well its nice to know that your thinking about him........
if your going through a rough time, maybe his favourite meal, and dvd would start the night off, perhaps a few bottles of your favourite tipple,and then talk together.
Talk about whats bothering you both and listen to him,carefully.
It does nt have to be a night to remember because you will have lots of others (hopefully).
Perhaps a massage , or run him a nice hot bath.
But personally i think letting him talk to you and listening intently will spark a few flames....... goodluck