Can't Ask A girl Out

[split_skate]

Hey, I just needed a little help asking a girl out (not out for coffee or something) I don't know how to ask this girl out. What? do I just go up to her and say "will you go out with me?" please if you could just give me some information, im so new at this junk, I did not know hich area to post this in so bare with me thanks, Andy Wilson

[zgma]

Yes, you could do that. Am I right that you're trying to ask her to be your girlfriend, rather than just out on a date? Why don't you ask her on a date, and if you have a good time, see where it goes next. You could just bluntly say "I think you're cool and I'd like to hang out with you - do you want to go out to dinner with me?" Chances are she'll be really flattered.

[PatTheRat]

"I think you're cool and I'd like to hang out with you - do you want to go out to dinner with me?"...something like that will do the trick. But, personally myself, I wouldnt use the word cool when asking a girl out. Depending on what age you are, ask her to the cinema or something if you are young, dinner if you are a bit older. Remember also, women want the exact same things as men. They just pretend they dont.

[tomd]

I knew she wanted that golf set really.. Cheers Pat

[andy hughes]

If you steam in and ask for a date, chances are she'll say no, because you'll come across as desparate, one thing women hate! Strike up a casual conversation, and bring it round to cinema, bowling, some similar activity. If she expresses an interest, say you were going to go one evening, would she like to go with you. If she says no,no harm done, if she says yes, you'll get an idea from her bahviour on the night whetyher she sees you as just a friend, or something more.

[dizzydog]

I take it by the above answers that you are all guys!! Better find out if they are single or not before taking any of their advice. Sorry everyone! but most men are useless at asking girls out, it is a sad fact that some men are so bad that it is down to sheer luck that they get any dates at all. Take some advice from a woman and put yourself on the line.. If you like her then just say so, girls like a man that is strong and brave. Dont appear too desperate, tell her 'you think she is georgous' if, and only if she responds well, ask her if you can take her out sometime. If she looks ****** off then just smile and walk away. Either way you look cool and confident and girls love that!! Hope this helps,let us all know how you get on. dizzy xx

[dizzydog]

ooops sorry, I meant 'if she looks displeased' !!!!

[split_skate]

Alright, Ill try and ask her to movie or something and ill see how it goes. thanks! (i'll report back)

[Knob]

If that doesn't work, I would recommend taking one large freshwater fish and gently stapling it too her back when she is not looking.

Then go away and approach her a minimum of half an hour later and advise her that she has a fish stuck to her back.

She will be so grateful that she will at the very least go to a movie with you.  Make sure she has a bath before any intimate moments.

Hope this helps!

 

[split_skate]

Ok, guys ive tried askin her out but, I can't get her alone! I need her in a private place, people are always around me, I want to ask her in private. I've read some articles on how to do this, can anyone help?

[studd]

dude there are a couple ways to get her alone just ask her if she wants to go outside  or go to your house and talk alone, or go for walk. Try it, it will work!