men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[jen85]

why are boys so stubborn!?! grrr my other half is driving me crazy recently! one minute he is all loved dovey and we get on so well next minute he is acting a bit cold! i cant work it out. we have had a few arguments lately over silly things. i i want to talk to him about something concerning our relationship then i ask and speak to him politely. he shuts off and wont talk about it (not one to express his emotions) and then i get annoyed cuz he avoids it and i have to carry on stewing on what ever was the problem. just gets me so worked up! its a vicious cirlce. i need to talk, he doesnt, i have to deal with it. i dont know the answer. if i talk to him he accuses me of moaning all the time and if i back off and leave him too it i get whinged at for not phoning him! its like a split personality. one minute laid back the next his really edgy!

[Miss Random]

Aww, jen, I am sure every woman on this site knows exactly what you mean.
Sadly, the truth is .. they are wired up differently to us.

Try reading the Mars and Venus books, they are quite enlightening.
Good luck hun.

Missy

[:pagan:]

Is he young ie in his early twenties?

[Louisa 69]

Hi Jen, You could try and write it all down in a letter and give it to him. Do you think he would read it ?

Another good book is "why men don't listen and women can't read maps" by Allan & Barbara Pease. It's a great book explaining the differences between the sexes, it's written in a humours thought provoking way. Good luck