Fat Girls

[potterfan3]

What do you do when you're a shallow, mean, 17 yr old boy and there's a very fat girl who maybe kinda likes you?

[Skreecheeboy]

I would need to dramatically change my diet and lifestyle to end up "fat one day." Some big girls carry fat around with them quite well but others struggle to get off the couch. I don't find anythign wrong with big girls, I just wouldn't like to marry one of the lazy fatties as I'd probably out live her ken? I'm not being cruel about it, if they're fat they need to exercise to keep up with me.

[Skreecheeboy]

Same goes for unhealthy skinny birds too btw. It's nothing to do with their size, it's how limber they are and what the shelf life is that I'm talking about.

[cazzz1975]

skreech, lazy people come in all sizes. assuming that someone is lazy because their fat is like assuming a very thin girl is anorexic.

Im a size 14/16 and I exercise 5 day a week, I am anything but lazy and its annoying that bigger people are always assumed lazy

[JK04]

Yea dont go to hard on her...

Cus there's nothin worse than a cryin fat girl!

[Skreecheeboy]

Hey Cazz, I think you might have posted your response before I got my 2nd one in, I agree with what you said entirely but I still want a bird that's physically able to go the distance, both in terms of reliability (don't want to have to nurse her through old age) and to keep up with me in the sack. I don't think that's being hard on anybody, all you need to do to increase your shelf life is exercise and eat properly.

[twaflooers]

Keep up with you in the sack Skreech? ? ?

Ffs I've yet to meet a guy who can keep up with or last as long as a woman 'in the sack' whether she's overweight or not LOL LOL LOL.

Oh how I laffed!

[Skreecheeboy]

Oh aye, you been with me like?

[Ice.Maiden]

Guys who judge a woman simply by her size, age, race - whatever - are usually oafs. A fat woman doesn't mean a lazy one; a fat woman can be an intelligent one; a fat woman can be loads of fun, and make beautiful, kind mums - just as slim women can. Shallow, mean 17 year olds are no diffrent from fully-grown, shallow, mean men. It just means they haven't learnt to be respectful.

[sparkler]

well said

Ice.Maiden

[sparkler]

Following on from what 'Ice.Maiden' said! Isn't it funny that all the female answers are much more mature answers than the male ones (oh how the world never changes)

[Goodsoulette]

I dont think it makes you shallow if you dont fancy/want to date/or have sex with a very fat girl. It makes you mean if you deliberately humiliate her but if you tell her diplomatically when faced with her offering you affection, you do not want, then that is the best you can do.

I think Skreech has a point, definitely regarding growing old together (although, I dont think at 27 that should be your concern) and as for keeping up in a sack. Well all girls there could lie there like a plate of meat geting poked and last longer than a bloke but if you get out of breath walking up the stairs, you are going to be a crappy shag.

[unrulyjulie]

so what if you meet and marry a lovely slim girl, she has a couple of kids and the weight goes on? as it so often does for us ladies. Then what?? Do you love her less or do you love who and what she is and not notice her spare tyre!

and why are men so opiniated on this when i look round and see so many beer bellies???

I once got told i "used" to be attractive when i was slimmer! i wouldnt have minded but the bloke who said it had at least 3 cushions shoved up his jumper! Oh no, he was just a lard ar$e himself ! Cheek!

I find it sad that fat is so often associated with unattractiveness. shallow indeed. beauty comes in all shapes and sizes and very much from within!

Oh and just for the record, im using the word "fat" and yet i hear it said about normal healhty size 14 - 16's, what nonsense!

[Ice.Maiden]

Partly true, but if you love someone, and make love instead of just sh@gging - the gymnastics don't come into it. However, I have a very large friend who's had plenty of male friends in the past, and she's been married twice (the first one couldn't keep up with her!). She's absolutely lovely, and has plenty of friends as a testimony. No one says a person has to "fancy" a larger woman - but I personally think there are other attributes which are attractive, not just the physical shell.

[Sweet G]

It simply depends whether you like her or not. If you like her then go for it, if you dont then do nothing but be flattered at the interest.

if however you like her but you are worried about what others think or that they will take the mick then that is your issue and you need to address that before doing anything.

What goes around comes around so do not be mean to her but tell the truth if she asks you.

Best wishes

[Skreecheeboy]

Goodsoulette I'm 24 not 27. Julie, there's nothing wrong with post baby fat (or any amount of robustness provided it's healthy). Sparkler, I don't think I was being immature about it, is it unreasonable to say big lassies can do something about being so big? I think not.

[cazzz1975]

Not being funny goody but growing old together is more unlikely than ever with so many people dying of drink/smoking related deaths, not to mention hard drug use that is becoming more common.

I would rather be with an overweight bloke than someone who binge drinks/smokes/takes drugs regularily

[Skreecheeboy]

BTW, I thought it was the fat bird that posted the question if that makes a difference. If it was the bloke I'd say go for it, any port in a storm as they say.

[Ice.Maiden]

Very sensible, Sweet G, but assuming that the said girl is a teenager herself, I wouldn't advocate being direct with the truth in this instance. Young girls have enough worries about their looks and bodies, without being made to feel even worse by someone they fancy. I just think that a white lie might suffice in a case like this. Potterfan could say that he's too busy hanging with his mates to be thinking of dating any one particular girl - or that he's already seeing someone, but of course, there are kind ways of rebuking someone, and not coming over as "shallow and mean".

[Skreecheeboy]

Cazz, I agree with what you are saying but I apply my same reasoning to partners that take substances, it still boils down to health and compatability. You can be healthy and occasionally take drugs, I'm way healthier than your average slob.

[tiggerblue10]

I dated q guy last year who said he wanted me to be a size 8 so needless to say I dumped him when he told me this. I am a size 12 which I believe to be completely normal. He obviously wanted to date a stick insect!

Having said all that I suppose I'm guilty of being a bit sizeist as I can't stand beer bellies.