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lol red, I think she is probably generally a nice person, just needs to work on her people skills. She had actually pretty much put me off having the home birth I have wanted all along too but after speaking to the nice midwife today, my confidence has been restored and Im feeling so much more relaxed about everything.
Something useful I have been told......... because Im expreiencing some cramping type pains, thanks to baby doing what baby should be doing lol, I have been told I can start using a TENS machine to help ease the pain. When I said I plan on having one for the birth anyway but was advised not to use one before 37 weeks, the midwife said they only say that as it can mask the start of labour as its a pain relief but she has never known of this happening and has given me the go ahead to use one already.
Shame they dont do one for PGP because I am in agony with that most of the time now and theres nothing more that can be done about it :(