what if the love of your life ?

[legend004]

In advance of this thread im posting to say that this is not intended to upset or disturb anyone.
this post is a genuine and honest attempt to get answers , from those willing to participate .and see if everyone feels the same way and if its a matter of age that influences peoples answers / opinions.




SO


If your wife/hubby /patner died .
Would you get involved with another person , perhaps cohabit , even marry ?
Or are you the sort of person whod live a life of solitude?
Never entering into another relationship for fear of desecrating your previous one?
Do you think that its disrespectful to meet someone else?

Would your partner care?
Do you think you could live the rest of your life without emotional contact with a new partner?

Is your love so strong that you would need to spend your life alone ?

Do you think age , not length of relationship ,makes a difference in this situation?

[Ice.Maiden]

If my husband dies before me, then he'd want me to go on and do whatever makes me happy in life, whether that'd include a new partner or not. I feel the same way. If I die first, then I'd want him to find someone new, if that was what made him happy - but both of us agree that the children come first, no matter what. I don't think human beings are meant to be solitary, but some people prefer it that way, so it's a question that can't easily be answered.
Age is no barrier to love, so it's always possible for people to meet someone else in the future, but you never forget the memories of what's been before, which is how it should be.