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pastafreak, no worries, it reminded me to say hi to my cat anyway. i left home for 5 years, so he doesnt really know me now anyway.
i do feel lots people not really responsible to their pets in china, recently i was on a forum and found lots overseas students who are living or studying in UK posted there, they are looking people to adopt their dogs or cats, i dont understand why they decided to get a pet in firstplace if they know they are not settling down here yet. only can hope thos animals good luck and could get a new home.