Decent men?...

[blondie83]

Ok this is a hyperthetical question for the guys on here. and please please be honest
Are you all really only after one thing? seriously, i mean are there any men out there that are decent, that wont treat you like dirt and ect. It just seems that from my experience, there arn't!!!

[legend004]

3ighty you may have a point there.

[4GS]

It just seems that from my experience, there arn't

blondie, if you keep catching the wrong fish
change the bait!!

[legend004]

4gs these threads start of talking about men not being decent etc then descend into droolfests over wanting to get a bit



no wonder guys get confused

[beso]

A long time ago when I was young I really wanted just one thing. I wanted to be loved. I got badly hurt by a woman who didn't understand this but was lucky enough to end up with someone who truely valued love as the core of the relationship.

Although a lot of men value this in a woman they are not willing to offer the same level of devotion. Unfortunately this leads to a rather unsatisfying onesided love with the man ending up resenting his wife's attempts at seduction. It is a big disappointment to a lot of women. It happens to men as well.

The best guys generally get snapped up by a few lucky women who can't belive their luck. They don't part with them easily. Sadly most women have very mediocre partners who don't really understand love.

It is a historical thing. For millennia we taught boys to be somewhat insular. They performed better in mortal combat that way. Meanwhile women cornered the market in being sensitive beings and told their sons not to be sissies.

The misfits men among us who survived their childhood as sensitive souls without being entirely crippled are the men who can make a woman happy if she understands what it is that she really wants in a partner.

Women need to teach their daughters to make better choices and encougage them to support those men who understand what it means to be a woman.

I promise you that there really are worthwhile men out there but if they find someone who appreciates them for who they really are you won't have much of a chance of getting their attention.

Most women don't know what they want until they are in their late twentieds and met enough guys to know exactly what they don't want. At this point a woman is best advised to look among the ranks of the truly wothy young men who haven't been pounced apon by their immediate peers.

[Crackle]

there isnt

[bms]

Yes, Depending on how you treat them

[h20farmboy]

EXACTLY Roman. Nice Guys or Good Guys Get The Women That Blondie Is Talking Men Are Like. The Great Women Get The Guy That Beat The Crap Out Of Them and They Stay With Them ButThe Nice Guy Wanders Around Looking For Somebody To Care For And We Are Not Even Noticed. Not all Men Are The Same. Some Just Want A Piece No Strings Attached Other Want A Real Relastionship But That Female Doesn't Exist. Some Women Just Want a Sugar Daddy Or A Father To Pay Child Support I Have Seem Them All. But There Are Decent Women Too But Hard To Find Like Decent Men.