guys are turned on too much!!!

[holly coffin]

why is it so important for guys to have a turn on or to be having sex all the time? why are they such pervs? and why do girls have to be hot in order for a guy to like them?

[delsgirl]

Its biological my dear, eg Human nature is for guys to want to procreate and spread their seed as many times as they can, Thery are on the planet to multiply the population and nature says have a go anywhere they can. Its only religion and politics that say be faithful to one person, nature says do it anywhere with anyone as and when you want to, both to male and female, have you witnessed the animal kingdom, well men are the same, for real, the only difference its up to females to give the go ahead or not, and some aninmals say no at times, take a look at a nature programme on tv and you will relate to loads of how they reproduce. By the way its only the ape family and humans that do it for pleasure eg intimacy ( or security and love if drunk)

[Ice.Maiden]

Oh bless, Holly! It's the normal way of things for people to fancy others, and men are inbred to be the "hunters" after all!
Girls don't have to be "hot" for guys to fancy them. Some look beyond the looks thing, and are attracted by a sense of humour and personality, but most red-blooded young men think of only one thing! When you're older and more experienced - no disrespect to you - you'll be able to sort out the good guys from the jerks, and you'll meet someone who'll love you for yourself - although hopefully that'll include a sex life as well! x

[beso]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We all go for someone who is hot because that is how we perceive who we are attracted to.

Contrary to popular belief all men are not obsessed by sex. Personally I have always found the ability to communicate is the foundation of attractiveness.

[~max~]

I think we should remember that Holly is only 15, and therefore in the midst of teenage troubles!
At that age, yes, guys are generally very much led by their sexual urges and hormones. But when you grow up, you will realise that there is more to relationships than sex, and so will they (well...most of them anyway!).
At 15, you shouldn't be obsessed with "looking hot". You should concentrate on becoming a good person, studying, making friends and enjoying life without the worries of relationships. All that will contribute to making you attractive when the time comes for you to start "dating" properly. xxx