Clothes at ex's

[tgm1974]

Me again

Just a quickie to see if Im being silly or not.

My partner has split with his ex (who he has kids with) and has been living with me for nearly 2 yrs now - only since Nov 2007 have we bought a bigger place together which is still being decorated, etc.

He still has some of his clothes at the old house and said they are old ones and are only there as we have nowhere to store them .... would this bother anyone or am I being totally childish!

[banjosister]

Hey tgm,

Erm, not sure I follow!

The old clothes at the house you both used to live in or his ex?

I am assuming it's his ex or why else would you be bothered, why are you bothered?

He is with you, try and concentrate on that, not easy I know.

I still have stuff of my ex's, including a key, which I paid for and I was not going to give it back unless he paid for it! Pathetic I know but that's how it gets sometimes, we only split just over a week ago for the millionth time!

If he's not bothered, then don't let it worry you.

Rambling again..

BB xx

[tgm1974]

Hi there - yes clothes at ex's house not my old one.

They are still legally married you see so Im just a bit insecure about things. Not that he would do anything to me as I know he would never .... plus she is not an oil painting compared to me (joke). Just think my head is looking for things that it shouldnt.

Hope you're ok - men are such pains. Do you think you will get back together

[katerich48]

Just to let you know this isn't uncommon... My brother still has about 800 (at least) music albums at his ex's she has the room and he doesn't...She has explained this to her new partner who seems ok with it...In fact she recently moved and had to take all the albums with her.. So your boyfriend isn't the only weird one...It's not worth rowing over...

[tgm1974]

Cheers for that - at least I know I havent completely lost my mind

[bednobs]

eh? how does that answer comfort you? she is saying that it is normal to still have things at exes houses and you are bonkers for worrying about it! ok so maybe she is not saying you are bonkers

[tgm1974]

Noooooo I mean that Im not the only one it is happening to - hence me being so paranoid!!