Revenge

[janetsflower]

Friend of mine wants to get revenge on her ex - he cheated on her lots, beat her up once or twice, treated her like poo and all the usual plus he is refusing to give her any financial support for their child and its getting messy with CSA cos he's a liar. She wants to put posters up all over town naming and shaming him but i think thats a bit risky. She still has access to their house whilst its being sold - i think she should do stuff like rub the crotch of his undies with chilli peppers, inject his toothpaste with garlic oil, mear fake tan round the telephone receiver etc. Anybody have any other suggestions......

[China Doll]

Letting go and moving onwardsand upwards with her life? That would seem the better option to me.

[andrea81]

Ohhh! I would leave well alone, it could turn into a game of tit-for-tat and thats no good especially with a child involved. If he had physically abused her, then he's obviously not the type of person to mess with!

She's well rid!

[Hitler]

either way can get introuble with the law. just forget it. revenge is for the weak.

[Octavius]

Perhaps just move on and raise the child in a happy and stable home without resorting to irresponsible acts of vendetta?

I wouldn�t recommend revenge as it rarely works and usually backfires. If she is found to have done something such as criminal damage etc then she might be at risk of appearing deranged and losing her child.

Maybe the best revenge is financially, through the proper channels. The important part in all this is the child.

[4getmenot]

Move on as others have said and act like an adult/parent should

[leyenda_dos]

She shouldve got out after the first of the few times he beat her up.Obviously not the brightest.And now looking for revenge?Theres no excuse for beating a woman , theres even less excuse for taking it more than once.



DTH?

[leyenda_dos]

Raggy youre so cynical.

But do make some valid points





did that help?

[leyenda_dos]

Well that may be that youve become a free thinker?

Or that the medication youre receiving is of too high a doseage?

Or that yuor alcohol dependancy is taking control of you ?


Alternatively it just might be its finally sunk in that im not the devil child , im just a bit devilish at times.





DIDDY THIS HELP?

[cazzz1975]

why doesnt she just have nothing more to do with him instead of starting a hate campaign, in the end it will not solve anything and make your friend look like the bad person.

the best thing she could do is find happiness with someone else and forget about this ex

[leyenda_dos]

I was thinking the medication too.
Did you answer my difference between men and women thread ?

Im off to see





DID IT HELP YIE HEN ?

[cado]

you r the devils child legend? now i understand why you behave so devilish. are you a skunk too?

[monkeyeyes]

The best revenge is to live well...........

Now that she is essentially free of this charmer, she should make a life for herself and her child, entirely non-reliant upon him or the CSA.........

Then he will be at liberty to stew in a lifetime of regret and kicking himself at what he so casually threw away..........

[unhappychick]

She will have her revenge when she has moved on in her life and settled down with someone who treats her better.
This type of man will be in and out of relationships and probably end up a sad lonely old git, while your friend will hopefully have a fulfilling life....thats the biggest revenge of all! Wouldnt go there with the game playing, will cause a whole load of trouble that you dont need!

[janetsflower]

has noone got a sense f humour- when my ex did it to me i very sweetly warmed him a chocolate croissant and added extra chocolate -ex lax!! He was on his was from the midlands down south to see his knockoff but ended up having to book into the travel lodge on the motorway services and spend the weekend on the toilet with bad stomach cramps! Revenge certainly was a dish served warm with extra chcocolate!!