time to turn gay??

[monkhousebob]

having bein single and mostly enjoying it for a couple of years ive recently been on dates with a few different women....anyway one in particular stood out but she lives a fair old distance. she knew this beforehand but is now saying thats why it wont go anywhere?? lame excuse?? we were both as keen as eachother and she still says im very cute but distance is an issue as she wants to settle, shes ten years older but neither of us were bothered. is she hiding behind the distance??? will i ever know what goes on in their heads?? describes me as her ideal man but cant see pas things that can b put right ???

[bednobs]

you might be the right man, but in the wrong place. Either that or she is using it as an excuse to let you down gently

[joggerjayne]

Give the gay thing a whirl.

Don't knock it until you've tried it.

[snagged]

'' will i ever know what goes on in their heads?''

I doubt it... welcome to the real world ;o)

[chino-cube]

would you give or take?

[joggerjayne]

Does it have to be one or the other, chino-cube?

[chino-cube]

yes it does for a beginner jayne!
gently does it!

[joggerjayne]

Okay chino ... I bow to your superior knowledge.

[chino-cube]

i'm not gay, I just get a bit too drunk at times!

[123everton]

All women are nuts, sorry girls, but they are.

[joggerjayne]

Just cos you occasionally sleep with partners of your own sex doesn't make you 'gay'.

[logic]

Jayne ,this chap is obviously hetro, and I am suprised at you for trying to encourage him to try gay sex,
It is some thing I cannot condone, the anal passage was designed for exit, not entrance, that is the thing that disgusts me,
with girls being gay it is different, and you well know it,
Ie they don't enter orifices that shouldnt be entered,
And, oh well I'm not going into it any more, I just think you are very wrong to encourage someone, esp male to try it,
Sorry if my opinion offends, but i tell it like it is.

And monkhousebob don't give up, there is a female for you somewhere.

pete.

[dustypuss]

iv met bob on wipe out, bloody good bloke sorry he is no more

[chino-cube]

you obviously haven't watched the same films as i have Logic

[dustypuss]

jj are you a hetero

[gucciman]

you need to speak to her and get a final answer

i lived in birmingham and my fiancee in neath 120 miles away but we made the effort to commute to each other every weekend and now i live in neath with her so it can work.

if your the man for her then distance shouldn't be an object.

[Velvetee]

Suggest moving her way and see if she makes up another excuse.