oh flip

[SKA]

he just told me he's married - could have told me sooner!! bloody men!!!

[topogigo]

Don't imagine that every man is a creep so that you have to look for the obviously attractive ones, find out about someone for a long time before even considering them as a friend.
Find someone that doesn't need to lie because he knows you will not be judgmental. You may be attracting the wrong type.

[SKA]

omg what make's you think I go for looks? Trust me if I did he'd be on the minus list

[SKA]

I'm 21
I'm not looking hard, I'm just taking what life throws at me
hmm there is no rush

[topogigo]

So you were judging him, ugly, i see. You must have been attracted to him in some other way.
Did i mention looks? I think not, don't be so shallow.

[SKA]

I'm not shallow!!

night everyone - yes even to the men here

[pinktwink]

i agree 21 is way to young to be worrying about serious relationships you have plenty of time get out there enjoy life travel meet lots of new people have lots of fun and be good to yourself

[Rosetta]

Night Ska Don't despair, not all men are bast@rds.

[pastafreak]

Was she looking for a serious relationship....or is she just feeling that she allowed herself to be taken in by him....only to learn he was not what he seemed....?

[know-noknow]

that's right Rosetta!


i always tell the womam i am rogering that i am married
from the start!

[Rosetta]

KNo no, I admire your honesty, but does Mrs K know? (Sorry that sounds like a tongue twister)

[know-noknow]

i was jokin :0)

[know-noknow]

nite all

[Rosetta]

Never?

[Drisgirl]

O know where youre coming from -its the fact that he thought you were naiive enough to be taken in- so IMO -he is scummy.

Take heart -theyre not all like that- just the highland dancers- least it was a learning curve :)

Just be young free and single -I was married at your age !!!