Sara - your boss is lucky to have such a caring and supportive colleague. At least having someone like that in the team will help him get through it. Knowing what you do, I know that there are procedures and processes that must be gone through. Must have been horrid - but at least he has you.
As for uplifting thoughts ^^^ is the best I can do.
I do know a rather silly and stupid rhyme though:-
Spider spider on the wall
Ain't you got no brains at all
Can't you see the wall's been plastered
Now you're stuck you silly b@stard.
You want something uplifting? What about that man on the Antiques Roadshow who found old paintings whilst out fishing and one was worth �30k! WOW what a lucky sod.
hi sara3, if you are close friends with these two people, all you can really do is be there for them if they need you.
just to know they have support will be an uplift for them both.
hope it all gets sorted soon.
I had a similar experience of someone being investigated when I was at work and it was horrible. Unfortun
ately he had done what he was suspected of, and it resulted in prosecution. I was gutted, but also angry that he should have been so stupid.