Love gone out of marriage...........

[ianess]

What do you do if you just crave a physical relationship but don't want to end the marriage?

[sugarcult]

Give it time, a physical relationship means the passion is still there. Remember why you fell in love with that person in the first place. The physical side means you still want to be close to them and kiss them, and you probobly still care about them. Do you care about their well being? Would you miss them if they left you?

If you answer yes to these (and feel free to think of your own too) then whats your problem? Seems to me like you do love them... love cant be all fireworks all the time. Your married now, its about the little day to day things. Give it time, I say.

[tamborine]

if you crave a physical relationship & have a partner - wake them & yourself to enjoy each other.

Sex, at most, is half an hour for 'relief' (albeit nymphos/pervs). Your partner can't be that abhorrent that you can't bear them near for 30mins - if only to save the marriage.

Consider yourself lucky to have a partner available, for the taking!

[lizzydrippin]

Blimey, I don't even understand the question, must be me cos plenty of people are giving answers! Who do you crave a physical relationship with? Your wife? someone else? Is it a 'no strings attached' relationship you want with your wife? (bit late for that?) or are you saying that you crave a physical relationship with someone else but dont want to cheat on your wife and don't want to end the marriage either? Why don't you want to end the marriage if the love has gone? Come to think of it, you haven't answered for awhile, have you gone?