Lol @ wizard. Alan-r's right though. I know a gay guy who's married in name only. He and his wife are pillars of society, so go through the motions of being a happy couple. He gest to have his discreet friendships, and his wife gets the benefit of the money and nice lifestyle. Wouldn't suit everyone though.
Camp doesn't equal gay. A friend's (long-divorced) dad came out when said friend was in his 30s. He was the last person, by outward appearances, who you'd think was gay.
hi saxy
of course most gay men, i'd say 90% are not "camp" but normal acting guys
just that camp sounding /looking guys usually are gay,
nothing wrong with that each to his own live and let live etc