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Thanks, thats a a very knowledgeable reply, but some of it has gone over my head. Suffice to say to understand some of that I would have to be a solicitor in wich case I may already know the answer myself! I will elaborate a bit, a close member of my family chose to disown our family a long time ago. We know he is alive and which country he lives in. We used to be allowed a PO box address, but not any more. There is one member of our extended family who knows his whereabuts but is under strict instructions to keep quiet, which we respect. However there are members of our family who struggle with his decision to abandon the family and hope he will come back into the fold, and will probably leave him money. I think he will be easily traced by solicitors. Indeed if I tried really hard I could trace him myself, but I know it is pointless. I imagine if he was sent a cheque from someone's estate that he would tear it up. What would happen to that money, in layman's terms please?!