Dot, from your reaction to me last night, I do think you are being a little over-sensitive and territorial. People DO get shouty and a bit rude in chat forums sometimes, especially if the topic is emotive and I believe we all have to 'ride with it' to a degree in order to balance out all our different ideals.
I apologised to you for making a presumption about 'multiple usernames' and you said something like "you made the right choice", which seemed like a loaded response to me.
Though I may not agree with people here sometimes a) I don't set out to make enemies and will do all I can to find common ground/make peace but b) I will say and do what I believe to be right at the time.
All the best to you. MM