Sheila Hancock's Book

[evsajo]

Hi, In the book Sheila Hancock wrote about her life with John Thaw (Think it may be called The Two of Us) there is a poem near the end which helped her very much after he had died. I think the end is something about him always being with her, in her heart. I had a copy of this but have lost it in a house move, can anyone tell me what it is, or where I can find it? Many thanks

[marval]

It originally comes from "The Smoke Jumper" by Nicholas Evans.

If I be the first of us to die,
Let grief not blacken long your sky.
Be bold yet modest in your grieving.
There is change but not a leaving.
For just as death is part of life,
The dead live on forever in the living.
For all the gathered riches of our journey,
The moments shared, the mysteries explored,
The steady layer of intimacy stored,
The things that made us laugh or weep or sing,
The joy of sunlit snow or first unfurling of the spring,
The wordless language of look and touch,
The knowing.
Each giving and each taking,
These are not flowers that fade,
Nor trees that fall and crumble,
Nor are they stone
For even stone cannot the wind and rain withstand
And mighty mountain peaks in time reduce to sand.
What we were, we are.
What we had, we have.
A conjoined past imperishably present.
So when you walk the woods where once we walked together
And scan in vain the dappled bank beside you for my shadow,
Or pause where we always did upon the hill to gaze across the land,
And spotting something, reach by habit for my hand,
And finding none, feel sorrow start to steal upon you.
Be still.
Close your eyes.
Breathe.
Listen for my footfall in your heart.
I am not gone but merely walk within you.

[boxtops]

Have a look at http://www.dailymail....ife-beloved-John.html - there is a poem by Yeats near the end which Sheila says John had marked, is this the one?

[boxtops]

Marval sorry, my post crossed with yours, looks like mine might be from a later book by Sheila.

[roslyn251254]

Was it w b yeats "when you are old"?

[boxtops]

Yes roslyn, that's the one I found.

[evsajo]

Really sorry for delay in replying and thanks Marval, that was the one I wanted. I haven't asked a question for ages and I used to get an email saying someone had replied but that didn't happen this time so I thought no one knew the answer. Thanks to you all for your help