Hello there Mamya,
No apologies necessary.
I (and indeed Elsie too) are friends and near neighbours of In A Pickle.
He is at home now,and has been for some time,after a pretty fruitless and drugged up stay in a mental health unit.
We look after him when, and as we can,as his partner still has to work (of course) so we don't like him to be on his own for too long.Luckily we can walk to their house in a few minutes up our country lane.
Pickle would like to come back to AB,but things seem to be fighting against him.It seems his In A Pickle username has been removed(by AB Ed?) so once he has decided on a new one,and re~registered he may be up and running.
We are trying to get him to ease back into AB slowly,but of course we can't stop him doing the opposite if he wants,as we are not his parents.
Hopefully he will just answer those questions that he feels comfortable with,and not get involved in any of the argumentative ones.
We are trying to work out a new username for him,which will indicated that it IS Pickle,but without allowing him to be overwhelmed by "Glad you are back" posts,which no doubt will be genuine,but can be a bit daunting for him.
Any suggestions for a new username?
A big thanks for your concern.