ADVICE-hubby had affair & child!

[XmandyX]

Advice...hubby had an affair and a child with someone..over 5yrs ago now.we are bk 2gether and had another child so 2 now,but the bitch makes it hard for hubby to see his child...wants him over her house or go out to a restaurant...he went to court....but in the end nothing really come of it...his child has met our children lots and comes over sometimes...but she is soo jealous we are together...and constantly texts and ring hubby for stupied reasons....i know he would never go there again....but she really bugs me and i can't really say anything to her,coz she will stop my hubby seeing his child...i so want revenge..and im planning on doing something,

[pink-kittens]

LMAO!

[XmandyX]

WHAT EVER!!

[Quentin_Crisp]

"there were quite a few people who gave good advice...which had already crossed my mind"

For crying out loud, so the advice people gave you were on deaf ears then, as it had already croseed your mind.

YOU need help - and quickly - otherwise mistress no 2 is not far away at all. Sorry for the reality check, but you are quite pathetic.

[Quentin_Crisp]

Apologies ^ crossed

[XmandyX]

Oh my there seem to be so many weirdo's out there-get a life!! BYE.

[Quentin_Crisp]

We've all got one - 'tis you that needs to get a grip on yours, my dear.

Sorry for the sarcasm - do forgive me, wont you?

[cherrychapstick]

mandy sorry to say this but i think i have realised what the full story is he went with her because you are possessive ,he doesn't belong to you!! he is a human being and you drove him to it deal with it it is totally your fault not hers

[ganesh]

I don't fully agree with you cherry,because it's HIS fault not hers. If Mandy is that bad then he wouldn't have come back at all.I think she is just venting her anger on the wrong person and he needs to be thrown out by both women!

[cherrychapstick]

yeah i see that too ganesh ,but was trying to make her just see that as i have read the rest of the answers and she just cannot come to grips that it is her husband to blame and not the other woman ,if he loved his wife he wouldn't have slept with another ....we still don't know how long they were apart for him to have had a child with her .....but on the other hand how many wife's go back to their abusive partners who think they control them that is another point of view

[ganesh]

yeah i know, I never understand why women take men back,but I think she still can't deal with it,and she sounds so immature I cant believe it. Must be in her thirties! But she won't listen to the advice. I think she wanted us all to suggest nasty things she could do for revenge or at least support her in her actions.

[cherrychapstick]

yes probably ,just hope she doesn't do nothing silly they poor weans with be left with no mother and there will be no one to blame but herself ....then he will probably hook back up with the other woman for comfort then she will have lost .....hope she is still reading these x

[zzxxee]

crikey !!!!!! whats been going on here ???
fighting online daft !!!!