I was scared for my youngest daughter, thought she would snap into tiny pieces but with some gentle persuasion, she now talks all the time. The odd thing is my eldest grandson is on the autistic spectrum and he acts as if grandads still around and the things he says are so endearing it makes you smile, eg "Next time we go on holiday, shall we go to heaven to bring grandad back"LOL Its tjose things that realise you can`t pack it in, which I considered early on as rather annoyingly to some we were joined at the hip!!