womans fantasies

[stevie m]

my wife says she has no sexual fantasies, but i have read that all women do, is she just supressing hers or can it be true, anyone out there put me straight?

[woofgang]

If she is telling you that she has none, then that is what she wants you to know. Let it lie!!

[Buddy]

I personally think she is not aware she has them so boy its up to you to unleash them - just gentle probing (verbally).Start with what you like and see what develops.

I would hazard that 99% of women have them and if like me u are aware its ace - be gentle with her tho cos she might feel inadequate if you are too blunt.

[mullein2]

cant women have any secrets?? without being prodded to reveal all..maybe its best you dont know them as you may feel inadequate..as pushing people for that sort of information can open a can of worms..i am sure if she has anything to say she will tell you...when she wants to....

[funkychicken]

I agree with woofgang

Also you said you read it, but how does the person who wrote it know that its true? I don't think they do....

[milfman]

all women have fantasies,   quite often about me!

[tali122]

..............involving great pain and death

[boobesque]

i dont have them, i think only of what is going on at that moment and my partner is enough for me not to resort to fantasy.

[Buddy]

I've maybe misread this question,I thought by fantasies it was physical things she might want to experiment with.

But I appreciate that some might think fantasies are in the mind.

My initial reply was purely a physical response to the question.

Replies have been interesting tho'.

[Hermia]

Has she had a particularly religious/strictly moral childhood? I've got a couple of friends who were brought up in strict religious households and although they do admit that they like sex with their husbands they look absolutely horrified if you suggest that a woman may have sexual fantasies or want to initiate something.