If people have strong feelings about how their man should have chest hair, or not have chest hair, or their woman should be blonde, or whatever other superficial or ridiculous thing, then they sholudn't be surprised that their relationships don't last very long. It's very immature to concentrate on such things. As some posters have already told you, a kind personality is really the most important thing. And people who don't realise that are not worth getting into a relationship with.