friendship is it worth it???

[goodgrl]

up until lately there has been alot of tension between me and my friend last year she moved away to college but before that we were unseperable! over the last year i have changed alot, i used to have no confidence what so ever and now im the oposite i had to change and im glad i have but she doesn seem to like it! i have had discussions over this before with the rest of my friends but they all understand!!

any way last week i went to her sisters going away party with no intentions of staying as the rest were in the pub! so i left early but my other friend stayed on i rang her later when drunk and could hear her, sent a message sayin i would call her later got a very nasty message back "up yourself ****" and so on!! dont want to get any of my friends involved because it not fair! so what will i do coz ignorin her will make everything worse for everyone.

[AliFlump]

Maybe she doesnt like that you've changed because you were the the one friend she had that she could always feel she was better than. I know that sounds harsh but before she may have been the one that got all the attention because you were shy. and now she doesnt like that you are confident and perhaps that you dont need her as much since she has been away.

i may be completly off the mark, but if one friend goes away the other has to learn to live without them being around which they adapt to, and the one who's away will expect it to be how it was before she left.  People do change and it is good that you have you shouldnt have to explain yourself to her.

I would contact her and ask her why she was so rude on the phone and why she thinks there is tension, something may have happened that you dont know about

Hope that helps and hope i havent offended you ;-)