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Salla - FH = future husband.
Tambourine, my comments were tongue in cheek. My FH is out of work at the moment and whilst I cannot plead poverty I just don't consider spending £70 in a salon a justifiable expense when we have to use our money wisely. It's nothing to do with a lack of respect and everything to do with making sure we do not spend money on more luxurious items. Yes I could afford to do it, but then next weekend I may not be able to afford to take the children out so its a question of priorities.
The minute he gets a job, I shall be back onto hair appointments every 6 weeks and (when I can afford the time) having colours done.